The Power of Community

Most communities fail miserably when faced with how to respond to incidents of domestic violence in families. As an administrator of a domestic violence program in Brooklyn, New York for over 30 years, I was responsible for work with thousands of women (and eventually men) seeking safety. Among these were Palestinian women who faced particular challenges within the context of their unique culture. For many, there was a sense of isolation, increasing their trauma.

In a visit to the Hebron Women Charitable Society, I explored with director Dr. Asma Doufish, the presence and extent of domestic violence among participants in the Society’s programs. The Society offers an array of programs in Hebron including early childhood education, women’s groups, an embroidery and crafts cooperative, a children’s playground, and a spa and restaurant.

Dr. Doufish shared that this problem does arise but, because of the very strong foundation of family and community, domestic violence is not tolerated. When it is heard of with a woman known to them, both the family and the community condemn the abusive behavior and it is stopped. In rare situations they will support a couple separating.

During the first few days of our delegation, I saw other examples of strong family and community support systems. The young people at Youth Against Settlements clearly enjoy and support one another which fortifies them in their efforts to create and maintain community with the families living under the brutal containment practices of the Hebron military, and the violence enacted by Israeli settlers. Youth Against Settlements members are committed to non-violence and model how to resist and maintain dignity under inhumane circumstances.

This is the power of community. It binds and fortifies. It allows joy amid tears, healing amid trauma, steadfastness in the face of abuse.